ips patch first then supercard patch 
I thought I tried that before, but I will give it another go!
When I use the SuperCard patch, should I also set the Rumble like the instructions above state?
I'll try it both ways, just incase.
Edit:
OK I just tried the IPS patch first, then the SuperCard patcher.
If I have the RUMBLE - X set (Like the instructions I posted above state) then I get a "DS Card removed" error.
If I do NOT have the RUMBLE option checked... Then the game playes with no rumble at all! The SETUP option for Rumble is all greyed out. ANd when I play, there is no rumble.
Edit 2: Yeay!!!! With both my DSOne and the Rumble cart, I have RUMBLE! I just saw the menu option on the DSOne for Rumble. I checked it and BAM! Works PERFECTLY!